What's in a Day: Peek-ture post

For my own amusement, maybe others'. Maybe I'll look back on this time and reflect on the simplicity of life with one kiddo. I tried to document a typical day.

We went for a walk down the street to the bank. And since the little man is a veteran head-holder-upper now, he got to ride facing forward in the front pack. Loved it. He really hasn't been outside a whole lot seeing as its Winter in Oregon and he's still little, so he was enamored with the road noise and cars. Sadly no picture.

He crashed after that. Actually, on the walk back home. Pure sweetness.

Meanwhile momma set up the week's budget. We are now on the envelope system! We are very excited about it. Compliments my visual/nerdy fiscal personality. Instead of being constrictive about spending (like I had thought it would be, which is why I had avoided it), using the system is actually very freeing and involves much less stressing about buying things.

 

Buddy's naps are usually only 30-40 min. long, and he takes 3 a day usually. For lunch we had (by "we" I mean I was his entertainment as he watched from the swing) french toast using day old Great Harvest bread.

I just received my Grandma's silver, that she got for her wedding. It was baly in need of polish and cleaning.

Here is the end result.

Chris got home somewhat early. Did a whirlwind of some chores while he played with Judah, and then remembered that I wanted to make chai mix, I had been out for a while.

I use this recipe. But when I am making up a cup, I always use three heaping tablespoons of mix instead of two, since my mugs are large. Mmm. Make sure to blend well. I use my cuisinart smart stick. The more fine and powdery it is the smoother the chai. Yes, horrendous amounts of sugar. I have not tried subbing with any sugar alternatives. Another time.

Dinner was leftover vegetable soup and mashed potatoes with cheese and bacon. We help with youth group on Tuesday evenings. As long as he is fed sometime between 6:30 and 8 pm, Judah is in a fantastic mood, never fusses. He loves watching and listening to all the noisy, rowdy jr. highers. Especially game time. We usually hang out up on the stage overlooking the gym for that, and he occasionally gets scared when daddy yells (Chris helps ref the games). The best part about Tuesday nights is that Judah falls asleep on the way home. It always makes it easier when we are coming home from something at the time of his bedtime. No fuss drifting off to sleep! 

Tis the Season

Christmas. Christmas Christmas Christmas! I am so very excited for the season this year, though it would NOT appear so from the outside. I have zero decorations up in the apartment. They are still safely stowed in a rubbermaid since after Christmas last year. And I did suggest to Chris (again) the idea of not doing gifts for one another so as to save some money (shame shame). It's almost like a routine for us now. I plant the idea and he reasons me out of it. I just think it would really be impossible to stop that man from getting me something. BUT even though I lack the energy to winterize our little apartment, I am really looking forward to our first Christmas as a family. We even had a "rush" photo session here, after my sister politely insinuated that I really should do some Christmas cards, and it's not too late to get on the ball with that. Armed with a $20 off code at shutterfly that expired at midnight that evening, we had Chris' parents come over, whipped up a semi-legit looking greeting on our giant chalkboard, seated ourselves on the couch, and smiled for the camera. Got those suckers uploaded and prints ordered by 10 that night. Phew. Results.

Little Judah is quickly outgrowing the "little!" He will be a 3 month old by the end of this year. :) He started smiling on Sunday, December 9th. He is still very much into his tongue exercises, has started cooing and warbling, and loves to lift and wave his head all around.

I really got into the crafting-for-Christmas-gifts this year. All I really need to say is: I discovered chalkboard paint. :) Some last creations are drying on the kitchen table, and we have some more shopping to do tonight, and then I think we are about wrapped up.. catch that..? ;)

Looking forward to next week and having friends over for dinner, a drive through Keizer neighborhood lights, the Jr. High youth group Christmas party with food and elf costumes, seeing The Hobbit with a birthday brother-in-law, and birthdays for my dad and grandma. Merry Christmas from our family to your's!

edit to post blooper:

Birth Story of Judah David

It was Sunday, October 28th, almost a week past my due date, and yes, I was discouraged. Chris suggested we get out of the house that evening, and so we went over to visit at his parent's house. We were watching some tv, and baby was going wild inside. I jokingly asked Crystal if this was what happened the night she went into labor with any of her kids. A little after 9 we headed home. Crystal came out to the car and asked if we wanted to come inside to pray with the family. Many prayers were said that baby girl would come SOON.

11 pm I was sitting up in bed as usual, having painless contractions. Timing them, as usual. What was UNusual was that they were 5-1-1!! Almost on the dot. Finally. Woke Chris up, we both calmly finished packing the hospital bag with some snacks and toiletries. I did my hair and some makeup in the bathroom ;) Left the house at about 1 am. At check in at the hospital, I was a 3. We walked the halls for 45 minutes, and BAM! Contractions became painful. And this was when I found out I would be having back labor. I am still working on an adequate way for me to articulate back labor. Like a jackhammer, set on fire, drilling into your lower back... that's what I've got so far.

After walking I was checked and only at a 3 1/2. The nurse consulted the on-call doctor and came back with a sorrowful face and told me the doctor didn't think I was progressing enough, and that I was going to be sent home. I was devastated. They were going to send me home with something to help me sleep, but I was so nervous about the already horrendous pain with each contraction. I thought I'd pass out for sure ;) We then had to call Chris' mom and retract the statement that we were being admitted. The nurse offered to check me one last time. I was a 4. She consulted with the doctor again, and got the go-ahead to admit me. She started the jacuzzi. I think it was about 3 or 3:30 at this point.

I lasted not even 10 minutes in the tub, I felt confined and couldn't sit still with the contractions. My best bet was the yoga ball and leaning over the hospital bed. I not only was squeezing Chris' hand, but pulling very hard on his thumb/wringing his neck/chest, etc. The jump from a 4 to a 6 took between one and two hours. I asked for the epidural. The nurse said "ok, sure, and the anesthesiologist lives here in town so he'll be here in no time." I thought: he's not here at the hospital now?!?

He was pretty quick to arrive, and he started his spiel. I said yes, and ok  to everything :) He put it in, and asked how I felt. I still had feeling on my left side. They had me lay on that side to let gravity pull it over. Meanwhile, I was concerned that I was still feeling contractions. He told me it generally took about 3 or 4 contractions to fully take effect. Gahhh I thought I was home free.

When it did take full effect it was amazing. I had a perfect epidural. The only side effect was that I was shaking pretty violently for a couple hours. During this time my mother in law and two sister in laws came in and visited. I was doing great, just really annoyed by the shaking. I was at a 9 by about 11 in the morning. My OB came and checked me at about 12:30, and I was complete. I started pushing at 1:05.

Then came three long hours of pushing. The first half hour or so was figuring out how I was supposed to push. I was scared to turn the epidural down - they left it alone - so pushing was tricky. About an hour into it I made the first little bit of progress. Second hour I was frustrated, and getting desperate. I remember asking the nurse for help... thinking I couldn't do this. I developed a fever. Boy oh boy they could not get that delivery room cool enough for my liking. I requested a fan, and had cool wash cloths on my forehead and neck. They made me wear an oxygen mask. I think I asked about every 5 minutes if I could take it off. I'm sure I thought it was completely unnecessary.

Finally, Chris started telling me he could see her head. He got giddy. Waaayy excited. He didn't think he was going to watch but he found he couldn't NOT watch. Pressure got very intense. Many, many more pushes. My doctor was called. He came in about 3 or 4 minutes before the baby crowned. He had me stop pushing to slip off the umbilical cord from the head. Then it went fast, and very painfully. Baby slipped out, noiselessly, and doctor headed toward the warmer. Chris looked at me, wide eyed, and said "Sarah, that is NOT a little girl." I said "what?" and then totally and joyfully accepted it. We had a son! Was tearing up, but Chris and I sat motionless for about 8 minutes, holding hands, as the doctor and two nurses worked on the baby. The hardest part was not hearing anything from the baby, or seeing him move at all. Finally we heard little gurgles, no cries. When they brought him to me I was just overwhelmed that I now had a child, no surprise at the gender at all. Then I really started crying. They asked if we had a name. We actually had settled on a boy's name first: Judah David. The banter between us, the nurses and the doctor on the gender surprise was pretty fun :)

Chris then made some proud papa phone calls to the waiting room. Everyone he told replied with "you're kidding," or "you're lying." So fun!!!

We left the hospital at about 7:30  Halloween night. With an apgar score of 2, then 8 and 9, Judah had to be on antibiotics for a bit. Recovery for mom has been pretty great, and Judah has gained a pound since hospital discharge two weeks ago.

Judah David
Born: October 29th, 4:24 pm.
7 lbs. 10 oz, 20 in. long

Final Nesting

38 weeks today. For me, that means hardcore nesting.

I was blessed by my church family yesterday with a baby shower - and I really got all the last items I needed. Crib sheets, onesies bigger than 6 months, lotsa lotsa diapers and wipes.

After I got home from the shower, it had been agreed that Chris and I would have a major house cleaning, which would help me feel a TON better about bringing a baby home in a couple weeks. And so I was pleasantly surprised to be welcomed home to an apartment almost all the way cleaned, by a very proud husband. :) Turns out my brother (brother of the year award) was in our area for a little bit in the afternoon, came by to hang out with Chris and have lunch, and started cleaning up my mess of a kitchen when he was done. This combined with the fact that Chris was already planning his preemptive cleaning of the living room, bedroom and bathroom. They did a great job!

So instead of a really boring date night, we got to spend the evening going through baby gifts, watching The Lorax and having leftover Chinese and junk food.

So today finds me setting up baby girl's bassinet, exchanging a few gifts, writing some thank you's, and erranding.

As per my blogging schedule, next post might be introduction of our little girl!

8 weeks to go

I'm feeling really pregnant. And here is what that really, honestly looks like in daily life right now.

I'm having the husband take off one of our two mattresses. It's just getting to be too much of a task to hike myself up into bed. Especially when the energy level is low and naps are becoming more frequent.

I'm short of breath.. a lot. The central concern I have right now with labor is getting enough oxygen during the ordeal. A first-timer concern, for sure. That's just the thought that consumes me...not being able to catch my breath. Being currently congested may play into this one ;)

Getting spooked when someone tosses me something, or when objects come into proximity of my face or upper body. Wayyy too flighty.

I really don't mean these as complaints, just descriptions of the reality that I didn't fully know went hand in hand with pregnancy, and the third trimester in particular. I am really overall pleased with how mobile I still am; still oriented towards outings and commitments with friends and family. Hoping it lasts all the way through!

Timeline progression!

9 weeks

15 weeks

26 weeks

28 weeks

 32 weeks

just because

Chris' treat from Costco for me. It almost partly compensates for being 7 month's pregnant in August. :)

The Project Front

Easy "fashion statement" jewelry that I am capable of making! Underneath the embroidery floss is just craft wire.. it's kind of fun twisting the wire to form words. The wire loops at both ends so you can fasten a necklace chain onto it, like so.

Wall art! Amazing what canvas, a little scrapbook paper and some ink can do.

In California, my sister unloaded her newborn headbands into my baby stash.. came up with this place to hang them, using an old picture frame and some twine across the back.

And speaking of baby projects - a big one has been baby's corner in our room. Here's where I'm at right now. I'm a little stuck.. can't decide if I want to leave it as is, or add anything else. Don't want a whole bunch of clutter on the walls but I feel the area could use something with texture.

First and Last Vacay

Chris and I took our first vacation as a married couple - and our last vacation as just a married couple :)

Flew down to lovely San Diego to visit two sisters and their families and my mom, who was still out at my sister's place for an extended stay.

While there, we made it out to Seaport Village again. Love this little spot of shops and eats bordering the bay. We took a day trip out here two summers ago with the fam on our last San Diego road trip.

My niece was so excited to hold the parrot like last time.

What's San Diego without a beach/bay trip? This pic is from Mission Bay. Had little (less than a year old) ones with us, and so the bay affords an easier time of watching them than at the beach - less crowds, less chaos, no sneaker waves.

Lots of pool time, also. It had been a little while since I'd been in the water, and so it felt better than expected on my 6 month's pregnant belly. :)

We made it a point to continue on some traditions while there.... Taco Tuesday at On the Border, game night with "Funglish" and my competitive family, and my sister made us her famous potato soup. My 3 year old nephew regaled us with parts of his favorite movie "Real Steel," (he also does an impressive robot dance from one of the scenes), the girls did manicures and a spa night, and it was a great time especially of seeing my mom for the first time since the wedding.

Day Trip to Bend and Nursery Project

Yesterday I went with a friend to Eastern Oregon for her to drop off resumes at some bakeries and whatnot. (Can I just pause here to say I love being jobless, and able to say "Yes, I can go with you!" without having to cover a shift first??) We had a beautiful drive over there. In our stop at Sisters, we wandered into a great antique shop. We both decided it's a good thing neither of us own a home, or else we would spend way too much money at places like these. I fell in love with this picture frame:

I didn't, however, fall in love with the $28 price tag. Instead, I went home and made my own! This is *my* version of a "nursery project" (yep, I'm aware of the fact that it's The Troggs lyrics!).

This started off as a wooden hanging board/coat rack my mom gave me. I had Chris spray paint it black, then I came up with a font and lettered on first with a fabric pencil, then painted over in white. Pretty happy with it. Something to go in our nursery "corner" (since we are in a one-bedroom right now).

We also became frantically excited over a tile sale that the shop had going on. Lots of 4X4, 6X6 and 8X8 tiles for 50 cents, a buck and $2 each. Really pretty, albeit random designs. Some matched, some didn't. We each picked one with the guidelines that we had to come up with something crafty/decorative to use it for. We're also planning on pinteresting tile projects, and so next time we're in Sisters, we'll stock up! We didn't find out until we went to the counter to purchase, that they are the leftovers from a company that does tiling projects in mansions. In a job, each tile will go for about $12. We felt even better about our purchase after that :) Here is mine.

Pretty sure this is bad blogging...

I was just reminded I have a blog. Ok, I knew it all along... I was trying to forget?? :)

The neglected months and their highlights.

January: For the life of me the only interesting thing I can remember from this month was filing taxes as a married couple for the first time. Riveting. Obviously we were still (and are!) in the honeymoon phase, so life together was still new and fun :)

February: Announcing our pregnancy on my birthday! Yay.

March: Brother comes home from Hawaii/Sudan/Hawaii. The three of us visiting my grandparents in Washington on St. Patty's Day to celebrate their anniversary.

April: Heard my baby's heartbeat for the first time :D :D

May: Battling awful morning sickness... almost done battling.. oh also getting in a car accident with, praise God, no injuries! Going to see good friends A & D in Olympia, WA. Feeling my baby MOVE and KICK for the first time.

June: Seeing my baby (girl!) for the first time! Crazy one day trip up to Seattle for Chris to buy his dream bike ;) Bridal shower for my good good friend. Having my LAST day of work on the 29th!

July: Getaway trip for the bride to a McKenzie river cabin.. gorgeous outdoor wedding for her the following weekend. Brother-in-law coming back from his summer job in AK.

And now, Chris and I leave for vacation on Saturday in sunny San Diego! It will be so good to be with my family again.. some of whom I have not seen in exactly two years. Our grandma passed away less than a week ago, and so time spent together will be especially comforting and appreciated right now.

That's my last half-year. Apparently I need accountability to keep this blogging thing going.. so please hold me to it! Thanks :)

Sarah

Things with Lace..

My craft obsession of late has been with using lace. And since my mom requested to see some pictures of said crafts, we have ourselves a new post!

By far the easiest one to whip up was a pair of lace earrings. What you'll need is scrap lace - the teensiest amount will do! - two buttons same size, (and same color, if your lace is somewhat see-through), and two earring stud posts. I produced my earring posts by disassembling some studs I didn't use anymore :) But they can be found at Walmart, as well.

My lace was from a circular tablecloth.

Trace circles from your lace slightly bigger than the size of your buttons. Cut out, and lay your button in the middle, flattest side down, with a tiny spot of hot glue. Fold over and glue the edges to the back of the button.  

Then take your posts and glue to the back as well. And you're done!

I'm also wearing the top that I refashioned with lace.

What I did was cut a rectangle about 6 inches wide, and the length of my shirt + an inch. I folded the lace strip in half, sewed closed on two sides, then turned inside out so there was no open seam line. I then positioned it on the front of my shirt, sewed down the longest sides, and also folded and sewed it under the bottom hem of my shirt.

Finished:

And as long as I'm posting repeated pictures of me in the same shirt, now for a craft not involving lace! It's just as simple (and fun), and turned out just as nice as the tutorial made it look.

Fabric pom-pom pendants.. made with any scraps of material, and a flat pendant. Great tutorial found here

So fun to make, have done several for gifts. 

Traffic Lights and God's Timing

Do you remember back when you were first learning to drive?

For myself, one of my worst fears was that the traffic light would turn yellow as I was approaching or crossing the intersection. I can remember asking my mom what I should do in that scenario. Her response was something along the lines of saying the decision had to be made in the moment; you had to use discernment to either speed up or slow down.

I didn't like that answer. I wanted a hard fast "this is how you know whether to go or slow" rule of thumb. The using your judgment thing scared me.

I could just see myself braking square in the middle of an intersection (which I'm sure I tried to do a couple times), or coming to a safe stop entirely TOO soon, making drivers behind me mad.

In time, she was exactly right, and as I got more driving experience, the decision was nothing more than natural.

Even though I'm not a "new Christian," of course I'm still learning how to walk with God (way harder than driving with people!) - and sometimes I think I demand of Him a hard fast rule of thumb for what I'm supposed to do in scary situations that may come up in the future. "If I could just know in advance, Lord, what I'm supposed to do that would be great. Let me know Your will ahead of time so I can write it down, meditate on it, practice it; then I'm sure it will come to me quickly for those decisions when I need it."

The mediating on His will and wanting to be prepared sounds good, but that mentality highlights our flawed thinking in two ways:

1. There are no "certain situations" where His direction would "come in handy." It's 24/7. It's Him running the show.
2. A lot of the time, God requires us to act in faith. No formulas to apply to ease the scariness or the pain, no getting things figured out ahead of schedule. Then what would we need Him for? God requires us to do scary stuff. Like letting go. Like driving blind.

God will often lead us into situations solely for the purpose of seeing what shape our reliance is in. When we are completely leaning on Him in trust, then He will shed light on the way for us to go. Not before. His timing always has meaning. And sometimes the lesson for you is that faith is strongest moment by moment.

Two Weeks Later..

So I may or may not have had the blogger tab open on Chrome for plus or minus two weeks, waiting on divine inspiration for the "perfect" blog title. Yes. Lame.

Purpose of this blog is manifold:

+ To document the first year of our marriage - successes and mistakes, the moments I'll treasure, the little things I get excited about, what we learn from each other.

+ To share my craftiness with the general public (forced or otherwise). Chris has come to call all of my crafts, household projects, and homemaking recipes "pinterests." He's more or less got that one right..

+ To express my sometimes put-together, sometimes scattered revelations about life and God and what He's showing me. Maybe it will help someone else, maybe it will just help me.

Oh and maybe I could introduce myself? 41 days ago I married my best friend (Someone asked how long it had been last night at church prayer and Chris was quicker than me in his count of 40 days! 40 days and 40 nights.. [: ). I enjoy calligraphy, style, making cool looking things and just plain making things. Both to say I made it, and to enjoy the product. Love spending my time with my husband doing an array of things - dancing, making food, him explaining what is going on in the comic book movies when we go to see them, laundry, "helping" him when he was working on his motor - or nothing much at all.

And originally I was going to wait to blog until I had my wedding pictures (hey come on, you've got to say that's a terrific way to attract readership right off the bat. Who doesn't like looking at wedding pictures? Ok, rephrase, what girl doesn't like looking at wedding pictures??), but since I still don't have those, I figured maybe I should just actually start WRITING things that are interesting to read... yes I'm proud of that concept.

I hopemaybesorta that is a good enough start to a blog?! I don't know. If you are wanting to know why I settled on "Shine forth" for the name, go read Isaiah 60. Yeah. I am thinking I left things out about myself that are maybe important... but that's why somebody thought of the "addendum."